"I do not even get peace in my family, I do not get peace in school and many of my friends are facing the same problems as me", said Asif, a student in class 9. Despite coming from a wealthy family, life is not easy for him. Asif's family was heartbroken when his father's betrayal shattered their household. His mother was left devastated, and Asif felt lost and alone. Discovering that his father had secretly married made things worse. Especially when his beloved paternal aunt suffered a stroke because of the stress. Asif's experience mirrors the complexities of family dynamics and the emotional toll they take on youth across Bangladesh. He faces immense pressure to fulfill his father's dream of becoming a doctor, but his goal is different. He wants to become a businessman mirroring the struggle of numerous young people caught between their desires and their parents' expectations. It is a dilemma faced by countless youths across Bangladesh.
鈥淚 want to go back to the old days鈥, said Sakib, a 16-year-old boy who should be in class 10 or a Higher Secondary School, but unfortunately he is in class 8. Sakib comes from a conservative family and had to face financial struggles, and family trauma, all of which have taken a toll on his academic performance and overall well-being. He had a difficult time at school, with people making fun of him, which made him inattentive in class. Unfortunately, this led to his teacher beating him several times for his inattentiveness and not paying his school fees on time. He was not able to pay his school fees on time due to his family's financial problems. The situation deteriorated to the point where Sakib stopped going to school because he was scared. Eventually, he experienced mental trauma that has persisted since 2020.
Asif and Sakib both share a common aspiration, despite the difficulties they face, to find inner peace and follow their dreams. However, their aspirations are shadowed by societal norms and family pressure. Asif dreams of becoming a businessman but is facing pressure from his father to become a doctor. On the other hand, Sakib's fear of returning to school and facing the trauma of his past is clouding his dreams.
Their stories may seem isolated, but they represent the struggles faced by the youth across Bangladesh. The pressure to conform to societal norms, family pressure, and mental trauma are burdens many young people carry as they navigate adolescence. Moreover, economic disparities and lack of access to mental health support make their challenges even worse.
To tackle these issues, we must engage in active dialogue with our youth, understand their needs, and implement policies that support their growth. Providing access to quality education, creating job opportunities, and fostering a culture of volunteerism are key steps. By collaborating with organizations, government, and communities, we can create an environment where every young person has the chance to succeed and contribute to the nation's progress.
On the occasion of the International Day of Living Together in Peace, let us reflect not only on the challenges faced by youth like Asif and Sakib but also on the resilience and determination that define their journeys. I believe our young people are our greatest asset. Their energy, creativity, and passion can drive positive change if we provide the right support and opportunities. By investing in education, offering mentorship, and creating platforms for youth voices, we can address the challenges they face and help them build a brighter future.
Peace be upon you.
(Names have been altered to respect privacy concerns)
Written by:
Minhajul Islam
UNYAG Member
